Falling in love on-line
Today, I was asked how do people fall in love online. Obviously, the person who was asking had not a clue about online chatrooms, let alone virtual environments, online relationships and so on. She was really intrigued about the reason that led our hearts being attached to someone we had never set our eyes on.
Poor her, hope she didn’t got too bored, because she got a full lesson on how people reveal themselves more easily online, and how it is so much easier to tell jsut about everything to someone we never saw before – as far as the listener on the other side seems to understand what we are saying and shows through his/her replies she knows what we are talking about and shares our thoughts and convictions about whatever issue we might be discussing.
Now that I had some time to think further about the question, I come back to the conclusion I presented her. It is simply a matter of souls meeting and touching. After all, relationships are about emotions – and if someone does fulfil our emotional needs and is there for you whenever you need it, encouraging you, supporting, making you laugh and wiping away your tears… well, I’d say that’s more than half the way to fall for that other one.
The complications come when the eyes meet.
Or not, Katie, or not, hehehe
i am dfinitely fallin in love with a guy online rite now should i say somethin what do i say and how he is so perfect we have so much in common and hes f-in hot
well… as everything in life there isn’t a correct answer to all your questions. Personally, my advice is to take it easy and slow. Be sure of what he feels before making a move… or you could take a chance too.
I don’t know how long you know each other, but spend more time knowing each other. If you happen to run out of conversation topics… well, that might be a hint that he may not be the one.
Otherwise, being honest about your own feelings is always good. Just don’t rush all your thoughts to him at once… slowly open up your feeling to him. I think that’s the best approach. (but i’m no expert of course)
Hope all goes well